
10 Common Estate Planning Mistakes in California — and How to Avoid Them
June 20, 2025Estate planning is essential for all couples, but for LGBTQ couples in California, it carries additional significance. At the Kushner Legal Corporation, we pride ourselves on offering services that are specifically attuned to the unique needs of the LGBTQ community. Although legal rights have expanded considerably in recent years, there are still gaps and challenges that can leave LGBTQ partners vulnerable without proper planning. Relying solely on marriage equality or domestic partnership registration is not enough. A well-constructed estate plan provides certainty, privacy, and protection during life and after death. This article explains why LGBTQ couples in California should take estate planning seriously.
Legal Recognition Is Not Always Universal
California recognizes both marriage and registered domestic partnerships between same-sex partners. Under state law, domestic partners are granted many of the same rights as married spouses, including inheritance rights if one partner dies without a will. However, it is abundantly clear that LGBTQ rights may be under attack and a properly drafted estate plan can safeguard against future uncertainty.
Probate in California Can Be Costly and Public
Without a living trust, many estates must go through probate court. Probate is a court-supervised process that can be time-consuming, expensive, and public. The California Probate Code provides simplified procedures for small estates. For example, Probate Code sections 13100 through 13101 allow for simplified asset transfers when the estate is valued below a certain threshold. However, if your estate exceeds this amount, full probate may be required, resulting in delays and fees that could have been avoided with a revocable living trust. Probate can also trigger unwanted attention from estranged family members which can be stressful for grieving partners.
Planning for Incapacity Is Critical
In the event of serious illness or incapacity, your spouse or partner may not have the automatic right to make medical or financial decisions on your behalf without legal authority. A durable power of attorney and an advance health care directive are vital tools that allow you to appoint your partner as your decision-maker, preventing interference by estranged family members or other parties.
Protecting Parental Rights and Children
While California law provides strong protections for same-sex parents, complications can still arise when one parent is not biologically related to the child. Through a comprehensive estate plan, you can designate guardians, establish trusts for minor children, and ensure your wishes are respected regarding custody and financial support. Without these protections in place, your children could become the subject of a legal dispute or end up in the care of someone other than your chosen guardian.
Tax Planning and Asset Protection
California is a community property state, which means that property acquired during the marriage or partnership may be subject to special rules. An estate plan can clarify which assets are separate property and which are community property. Additionally, proper planning can reduce exposure to estate taxes and allow for efficient asset transfers to surviving partners, children, or other loved ones. Beneficiary designations on life insurance and retirement accounts should also be reviewed to reflect your current intentions.
Key Provisions of the California Probate Code
- Probate Code sections 6602 and 6609 authorize spousal and domestic partner property petitions, allowing the surviving partner to claim assets without formal probate.
- Probate Code sections 13100 through 13154 provide procedures for simplified succession of personal property and real estate under certain value limits.
- Probate Code section 1240 and section 8870 allow courts to issue citations compelling individuals to account for or transfer estate property when necessary.
Conclusion
While LGBTQ rights have advanced, legal protections remain uneven, especially outside of California or in the absence of formal estate planning. Relying solely on marriage or domestic partnership status can leave your partner or children exposed to risk. A properly drafted estate plan ensures that your wishes are honored, your assets are protected, and your loved ones are shielded from unnecessary legal complications. Working with an estate planning attorney familiar with California law and LGBTQ family dynamics is the best way to achieve peace of mind.
If you are part of an LGBTQ couple in California, now is the time to create or update your estate plan. Doing so not only secures your legacy but protects the people who matter most.
Contact the Kushner Legal Corporation today to schedule a complimentary consultation to ensure that your and your spouse are protected by a properly drafted estate plan.